Saturday, August 23, 2008

Italians were in Ethiopia, you know.


So I've been a little busy, and a little down. I know you're thinking that guy does not look live Mike (well we did share the same brow and hairstyle, but . . .); no, it's not me but my now deceased friend Dino Scoppettone. I planned on blogging this weekend, but Dino passed away earlier this week. He died of Liposarcoma at the age of 38.
Dino was a boyhood friend from elementary to secondary, and he stood in my wedding as a groomsman. Although we lost contact, I thought of him often. We did make contact via email a few times and it was if we picked up where we left off. Suffice it to say, Dino was not a casual acquaintance, even as our lives took different paths.
His death has really hurt. There are so many memories. I'm not sure yet how to piece it together,or if I ever will. I just see his picture and think he should not be dead. I'm just glad I've had school to keep me busy (I have been working a lot getting ready for school and sleeping very little). Although, just the other day the colleague next to my classroom was playing some song from the Police (Dino's band) and I nearly asked him to kindly turn it down. His death comes as a real blow, not only to me, to my many High School classmates who loved him so dearly, and who never lost contact with him.
This Sunday I will travel to Santa Cruz for his funeral and memorial service. I will see many friends I have not spoken with in about 15-20 years, and I hope I will cry and mourn with them. I've got to get out all these emotions which are bottled up inside. It will of course be a bittersweet reunion as I say hello to so many and goodbye to one.
I wish I could have shared my Ethiopia experience with Dino. I would have listened with great joy as he made some smart-aleck remark about it, or about me.
In the meantime, please be patient. I will write about Ethiopia soon, I promise.

6 comments:

TMuzzi said...
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Michael Nevin said...

Thanks Teresa. It was a blessed day. Clearly Dino's legacy was friendship. He even brought his friends together in his death.

TMuzzi said...

Hi Mike-
That is so true!
Take care of yourself-
Teresa

Anonymous said...

Hi Mike-
I wanted to see if you wouldn't mind deleting my email address from my blog post. I put my email address under my name and I didn't realize this would show up on Google! ;) I just did a Google search on my name to see if my profile showed up on Linked in, and Google pulled up what I posted on your blog along with my email address. I hope it isn't too much trouble to remove it, I get enough spam as it is! Thanks for your help, hope you're doing well!
Teresa

Michael Nevin said...

Teresa,

I will try, but I'm not sure how to do what you've requested.

Mike

Michael Nevin said...

Boy that was easy.